It’s been quite a while since my last post – much has happened since. I have managed to complete the sought-after CIS (Chartered Secretary – I am currently a “GradICSA”) qualification, after 6 long years of hard work, and am now ready to take on the world. Cliche, I know, but even I allow myself to use those now and then.

I’ve decided to put myself out there more, so have even added a link to my blog on my LinkedIn profile, with my start date being the month and year I was born (a bit tongue-in-cheek, I know)…it’s probably a good sign to all that I am not at all what I appear to be when taken at face value.

There have been many highs and lows in my life, which have culminated in me becoming the person who I am today. I’d like to sum it all up in two words: Quietly Courageous.

I’ve experienced severe trauma and battled a debilitating illness, however have also had massive successes in all aspects of my life (sport, career, education, etc.), met and married the most wonderful man, and have the most divine friends and family (pets included). The support and good times have helped me through what could have been the end of me – whether [those] people realise it or not.

I may have a dark side to me now, but I feel that this has made me more of a “whole” human being – I am able to relate to others, be more compassionate, and I have developed a deeper understanding of what drives/ motivates people (be it good or bad). It has helped me to understand many things, and help others in turn.

In a way I am glad to have experienced all that I have, and, likewise, achieved the things I have – I am able to help others, and hopefully give inspiration, motivation and the odd bit of entertainment to those who need it.

The word “courageous” is something people take for granted – they think there is no fear involved, that those who are “courageous” are merely brave and just do what needs to be done. The battle is unseen, often deeply hidden, and I can only hope that those of you who read this will see others who are “courageous” in a new light – they are even more brave than you think.